Male Support Centers in Europe: A Growing Need for Assistance
In recent times, several **male support centers** have emerged in European countries such as Denmark and Switzerland, aimed at helping men who have experienced familial distress. Psychologists note that men are often more prone to feelings of **loneliness** compared to women. When facing **family difficulties**, many men are reluctant to share their struggles, which may lead them down a troubling path. As a result, societal support and understanding are crucial for these individuals.
An Overview of 'Mandersen Trae' in Copenhagen
One notable establishment is the newly founded male support center named **“Mandersen Trae”**, located in the heart of Copenhagen’s Christianshavn district. This red-brick building, situated by the water, spans 650 square meters and features a warm, inviting interior reminiscent of a family home. It offers 12 rooms equipped with televisions and internet access. Professional advisors are on hand to assist men grappling with various family challenges, ensuring they do not succumb to **depression**, alcoholism, or drug addiction.
Many of the men seeking help at “Mandersen Trae” come from **difficult household situations**. Some have left their homes due to enduring psychological and physical torment from strong-willed spouses. Others arrive after their marriages have fallen apart, feeling directionless and lost. According to advisor Winnie Bentsen, “Women can often express anger in ways that may not be less intense than men. When angry, they may lose their composure, even throwing objects or, in some cases, resorting to violence.” Bentsen highlights that many of the men seeking help are often under strict control from their partners, who dictate their social interactions and finances.
The Importance of Male Support Services
“Mandersen Trae” is not the only male support center in Denmark. The earliest established organization, known as **“Horsens,”** has been providing aid for men facing difficult situations. Mia Long, a social worker at "Horsens," states, “These men, ranging in age from 20 to 70, are in urgent need of help.”
One of the residents, 47-year-old **Thomas Petersen**, has been living at “Horsens” for over three months. Following a divorce, his ex-wife sold their home, and he subsequently lost his job, leaving him homeless. “I feel hopeless, and I want to see my two daughters,” Petersen reflects, emphasizing the heavy toll that divorce can have on one's life.
Challenges Faced by Male Support Initiatives
Currently, there are three male support centers in Denmark; however, Torquil Hansen, the head of “Mandersen Trae,” asserts that this is significantly inadequate for a country with a staggering **divorce rate** of 50%. Compared to shelters for women, facilities aimed at assisting men are fewer and receive less financial support. “Mandersen Trae” receives approximately **$260,000** annually from the government, with a small portion coming from private foundations.
Since its opening in September 2007, “Mandersen Trae” has already supported over **300 men**, helping them navigate the challenges of rebuilding their lives and adjust to roles such as **single fathers**.
Similar Initiatives in Switzerland
Switzerland has recently introduced its first **“marriage-affected male”** shelters, designed to provide a healing space for men who have experienced emotional or physical trauma in their marriages. According to officials in Zurich dealing with domestic violence, there is a growing recognition that the traditional notion of “strong men, weak women” is outdated and should be reexamined.
As the demand for male support centers increases, it is essential for society to foster empathy and create more resources that address the unique struggles faced by men in difficult family situations.